Anchoring is an NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) term used to describe the mind's tendency to associate two unrelated events or experiences, especially when a strong emotion is present.For example, if your mother fed you chicken soup when you were ill as a child, you will always associate chicken soup to being... Read More
We all have behaviors, tendencies, patterns, and the keen ability to recognize any and all of them. However, when we become so accustomed and engrossed in them, how do we know we are enabling someone else's negative behaviors?It can be sometimes difficult to come to this realization, because it is... Read More
I'm experiencing some challenges in my relationship with Candice Bergen.I recently started watching Boston Legal on Sunday nights, because Candice Bergen had joined the cast. (She joined the cast so that more people like me would start watching Boston Legal on Sunday nights.) Like most Candice Bergen fans, I mainly... Read More
Men and women think differently about romance.Men are goal-oriented. They measure their success by their achievement. Unconsciously, they tend to divide their relationship into two phases - courtship and 'Keepership'.The aim of courtship is to woo the woman and win her affection. During the courtship, he is the hunter while... Read More
Society's current conception of the term "soul mate" is completely contrary to what the term really means. Imagine two gallons of water taken from the Atlantic Ocean. Both gallons consist of the same energy because they were both part of the same ocean. Yet each gallon will have its own... Read More
It is said that the stones in 3 stone diamond rings represent the past, the present and the future. Just as a couple unite these things when they join together in marriage, so three stone diamond rings represent perfectly all that has made each partner what they are today, the... Read More
Mairi came into my life about two years ago. She came from Arizona with a cheap trailer, four kids from three different fathers, and a seriously negative attitude. We met on a frosty October afternoon and with my Victorian upbringing, I developed a seriously negative attitude toward her. However, as... Read More
The next week was a whirl. The first quarter of the year was ending. The girls worked hard to stay on top of their businesses.Just for the fun of it, Kiki now chatted regularly online with Dotun, her new e-friend. To his credit, he was actually a lot of fun!... Read More
Staying close in your relationship does not just happen.Staying close requires conscious attention and effort.Here are two powerful tips for staying connected and close.1) Guard your heart.Affairs are the first thing most people think of when I say guard your heart. And it's the first place to start.As flawed human... Read More
Eleven o'clock on a weeknight I found myself phoning a man whom I'd recently met. We had been talking regularly and I just wanted to hear the sound of his voice.No answer. After four rings his answering machine kicked in and I hung up. How strange. This man made a... Read More
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