Do You Enable?
We all have behaviors, tendencies, patterns, and the keen ability to recognize any and all of them. However, when we become so accustomed and engrossed in them, how do we know we are enabling someone else's negative behaviors?It can be sometimes difficult to come to this realization, because it is... Read More
How do We Change our Self Esteem Perception?
Many of us have heard about the power of positive thinking to effect a change. The idea is not new, it stems from modern psychology as well as from ancient spiritual teachings. In each case, an individual is encouraged to avoid negative thoughts and to replace them with positive and... Read More
Ulterior Motive
Direct Answers - Column for the week of June 7, 2004Life was not this complicated a year ago--said laughing while banging head on keyboard. I can make this short, but there is so much and I want to be fair.Stage one: friends. A friend decides our relationship needs to be... Read More
Relationship Advice: Why Brad and Jen Broke Up and What We Can Learn from Them
It's been a few months since the riveting headlines: The Dream Couple, Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston broke up. The fall out from this celebrity break up is still plastered all over the magazine headlines.Parade magazine recently took a poll asking for the number one celebrity shocker of the year.... Read More
The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking & Loving Y.O.U.
"Know Thyself" PlatoIsn't it curious how just about everything in this material world comes with an operating manual; one specifically addressing the care and maintenance of its make, model and style? I don't care if it's a computer, a car, a refrigerator or a package of flower seeds, we always... Read More
Why Some Men Dont Want To Commit
If you are dating, engaged, or still trying to find Mr. Right, then this week's message is for you - Why some men do not want to commit or find it very difficult to commit to women they supposedly love. This topic is quite puzzling to most single women. You... Read More
The Big Secret of Age
Think back to when you were a child. Pick a time when you were aware of the world and starting to notice things around you, perhaps 10 or 11 years old. Most of us had aging individuals in our lives: grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers. We may have loved them dearly... Read More
Clues to Help You Bust the Undercover Married Man, Before You Fall in Love
If your Knight in shining armor still hasn't come galloping, don't worry. The right one will soon come through. Don't be in a rush and run the risk of ending up in the hands of the wrong man ? an undercover single man, the fake bachelor ? a married man.Is... Read More
Two Easy Steps To Finding Joy In All Your Relationships
Usually we enter relationships hoping they will make us happy. We hope that this person is the right one, that we aren't repeating mistakes of the past, and that we will finally receive the love, support, companionship and admiration we've been waiting for. Each person has a shopping list of... Read More
Destroyers of Relationships
Communication and listening is very important in any relationship. For it says in Amos 3:3 Do two walk together unless they agreed to do so? Honesty is another factor in a relationship in Colossians 3:9 it says Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old... Read More
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Building the Bond in Your Relationship
A bond (relationship wise) is when two people have a... Read More
What is a Red Flag
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Walls Of Communication!
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Travel to Find a Russian Bride
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Won Ton or Kreplach? How We Raise Children in Our Chinese-Jewish Family
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Let Kissing Liven Up Your Meetings (and More Kissing Tips)
Every now and then a quarrel breaks out down at... Read More
Find Your Love as Early as Possible
Life is made of innumerable dots. Dots, which are part... Read More
Before Falling Truly and Madly in Love Ask Each Other 10 Pertinent Questions
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Relationship Advice: Powerful Tips for Staying Close and Connected
Staying close in your relationship does not just happen.Staying close... Read More
Relationship Tips 101
In this article I'd like to share what the research... Read More
Mental Abuse - The 7 Most Important Things To Know
1. Sticks and stones won't break my bones" ? and... Read More
Bedroom Treason
Just a note to ask if there are other married... Read More
Cutting the Cord
Sometimes, after a relationship has ended, many of us have... Read More
Seduction Secrets For Men Part 3 - A Wonderful Idea To Spice Up Your Existing Relationships
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5 Ways to Tell Your Man You Love Him
Telling your man that you love him is part of... Read More
Taking the True Relationship Test
If you have ever read teen magazines you will be... Read More
Everything I Know About Relationship Success I Learned At The Playground
It happened again!I was enjoying an evening with my little... Read More
When Someone You Love is Moving
Your best friend moves a thousand miles, your aunt retires... Read More
Relationships: Last a Lifetime
Stepping into a new position brought along a few surprises.... Read More
Cheating Spouse: Is Spying an Invasion of Privacy?
My, how the cheating spouse cries foul when he/she discovers... Read More
Do Men Just Want Mommy?
Accomplished women are losers in romance claims NY Times columnist... Read More
8 Reasons Why Your Man Isn?t More Romantic On Valentine?s Day
What is supposed to be the most romantic day of... Read More
A Dear Jon Letter
How do you let go of someone whom you have... Read More
Catch A Cheating Husband the Easy Affordable Way
Many women mistakenly believe they need to hire a private... Read More
Did Casanova Really Need the Oysters?
Scientists are rubbing their hands together with glee. A recent... Read More
How to Have an Affair - Beware!
People decide to have an affair for many reasons. They... Read More
How to Create a Solid Foundation for Loving Relationships
What does real love look like? The way we act... Read More
Tips For Proper Kissing Etiquette!
Many cultures have customary kissing etiquettes. The French for instance... Read More
Are You A Hopium Addict?
Are You A 'Hopium Addict?'If the question alone was enough... Read More
Two Kinds of Love
Love is something we all need, and want. For love,... Read More
Single in a Couples World
Advertising for St. Valentine's Day seemed more relentless than ever... Read More
Are all Men Unfaithful?
"Men are all the same. Stop looking for Prince Charming,... Read More
Emotional Investments
It is a given truth that there are people out... Read More
Ending Relationships Gracefully
In my counseling practice, I often hear the question, "How... Read More
Washroom Break
Picture yourself at a bar with some of your buddies.... Read More
What Is Love And The Love Equation
What is Love? This question has bothered me for a... Read More
Stop Making Relationship Mistakes! Avoid Another Unhappy Relationship!
It is possible for women to steer clear of an... Read More
Long Distance Relationships - How to Make it Work
Long distance relationships are dreadful. I know this because I'm... Read More
10 Clues of an Online Affair
1. Your spouse or partner spends excess time on-line. Who... Read More
Second Time Around the Block
Divorce happens. I'm not going to debate the causes or... Read More
Relationship Conflict: Lock Horns or Lock Arms
One of my favorite comic strips growing up was "The... Read More
Extreme Breakup Recovery: Maximum Healing / Minimum Time
If you are going through the emotional rollercoaster of a... Read More
Christmas Gifts Can Be a Cheating Husbands Undoing
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Mairi
Mairi came into my life about two years ago. She... Read More
Build your Social Support Network
A social support network is a group of people who... Read More
Affairs: Advice for the One Who Strayed
To the spouse who had the affair, it's time for... Read More
Romance Matters
You are never too old and it is never too... Read More
Are Women From Utopia And Men From Wal-Mart?
It is surprising how many writers, psychologists, or scientists have... Read More
Eight Ways to be a Better Friend
Being a good friend is a skill we can learn... Read More
Power Struggle!
The greatest asset we have in human existence is our... Read More
Gay and Lesbian Relationships
America has a reluctance to accept relationships between people of... Read More
Real Friends
About a year ago, I was talking to a friend... Read More
5 Surefire Ways to Arouse Your Woman
As there are different types of women, there are different... Read More
You Have to Probe Deeper: Why First Impressions Are Dangerous
Do you remember when, as a small child at a... Read More
The Simple Facts About Falling In Love
We are meant to live a life of love. However,... Read More
Recognizing Unhealthy Relationships
One of the keys to obtaining a better life or... Read More
How To Write a Romantic Love Letter
Does the thought of writing a love letter or poem... Read More
Valentine?s Day is Fast Approaching, So Gather the Chocolates and Lingerie
That lover's holiday we know as Valentine's Day is coming... Read More
Fight, Flight, or Loving Action
Fight or flight - our automatic response to danger. When... Read More
Relationship Advice: 4 Ways to Handle an Unsolvable Relationship Problem
1) Leave the relationshipThis is the most common alternative chosen,... Read More
Things Every Couple Should Know
In my family law practice, one of the most common... Read More
How To Quickly Turn Platonic Friends into Lovers Using The New 5-Step Jealousy Technique
I'm going to get straight to the point. If you... Read More
A Diamond Anniversary Ring ? The Perfect Way To Seal Your Love
Some time ago you both made a promise. A promise... Read More
How to Get a Woman to Treat You the Way You Deserve
You know the scenario. You start dating a woman. After... Read More
Relationship Advice: 9 More Must-Know Tips for Couples
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Assuming Personal Responsibility in Relationships
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