Why waste your precious time working on tasks, which are definitely not your forte when you can delegate or invest your money on a product or service which will free up your time? You can then focus on the more important areas in your work and your life.
Debbie's Story
Debbie was the Director of her own computer company, employing four staff.
Debbie had a hectic lifestyle. She worked long hours, had three children and a husband to organise and on top of that was in the middle of a major renovation of her own home. To make matters even worse, she was also studying for a Bachelor of Computer Science!
No wonder she was stressed out!
Here was a situation where she had overburdened herself unnecessarily. She had far too much going on in her life and something was about snap!
Debbie was unable to sleep properly with all the worry and strain of juggling everything and had neglected her own self in the process.
Debbie looked tired and haggard when I first met her. She was 15 kg overweight and looked at least 10 years older than she really was. She had lost touch with what was really important to her. Debbie was trying to be superwoman!
She had taken on far too much and was forced to review her lifestyle (or lack of it) or she would either have a nervous breakdown or die in the process.
The Solutions
In working with my clients I always get them to write down all the activities and responsibilities they are currently involved in, both at work and home.
By writing them down you can clearly see what is really important and what isn't. You can also see where you fill up your day with unnecessary activity.
With Debbie there were many areas where she could free up her time to give her the time for herself as the number one priority and get some sanity back into her life.
Before Adding, Look at Subtracting
I suggested to Debbie that she needed to look at which activities and responsibilities she could defer, delete, delegate or outsource.
This is what she chose to do:
Defer her Computer Science Degree until the following year.
Organise a building company to project manage her home renovation. Up until that time she had been organising the whole project on her own!
Hire a babysitter with a car who could pick her kids up from school and run them around to their activities. The babysitter would also cook the dinner and do other light domestic duties.
Utilise her bookkeeper much more by delegating to her basic administration tasks, which she was very capable of doing. Her bookkeeper was only employed three days a week and was delighted to work an extra day assisting Debbie with other tasks.
Attend her local gym at 6.00 a.m. three mornings a week and once on the weekend. She also sought advice on her diet.
Within four weeks you could see the change in Debbie. She was more confident now that she has taken control of her situation. Her life was getting back on track!
The Final Word
It's really easy not to invest money in yourself.
Do you spend money on your car, your computer, your business, your home and other 'things' in your life?
Are you not worthy enough to invest in yourself? Is the price you pay for neglecting yourself really worth it?
What can you defer, delete, delegate or outsource so that you can have more time for living your life?
About The Author
Lorraine Pirihi, principal of The Office Organiser (http://www.office-organiser.com.au) is Australia's Personal Productivity Coach
Lorraine specialises in working with businesspeople showing them how to dramatically boost their productivity, reduce the stress and the mess in their lives and have more time for enjoying their life.
We Offer a Broad Range of Services and Products including:
Coaching for small business owners and professionals
Keynote presentations and workshops
Books, CD's, DVD's and on-line learning programs
Take action today! Contact Lorraine to discuss your specific needs at lorraine@office-organiser.com.au
Are you obsessed with getting everything just right? Do you... Read More
Ever feel that you spend too much time shoring up... Read More
How often have you tried to manage your time in... Read More
"TIME CANNOT BE 'MANAGED.' THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF TIME MANAGEMENT... Read More
Setting goals is the easy part -- but sticking with... Read More
We are all born equal! We all have the same... Read More
Here's a smart system for doubling or tripling your daily... Read More
It's been said, "That no one has enough time yet,... Read More
Years ago when I started in this business, it seemed... Read More
Many of the world's most driven and successful people sleep... Read More
TIME MANAGEMENTWith the creation of the universe, God gave humankind... Read More
At Home? Keep related items together, for example the coffee... Read More
"Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing, wind braces up, snow... Read More
When a good friend asked me to contribute a little... Read More
Increased productivity, the ability to get more value for our... Read More
Are you too busy to put yourself first? If a... Read More
"Because there will always be something more to do, we... Read More
One of the most common complaints that small business owners... Read More
People always seem to be in such a hurry, everywhere... Read More
Reflect on the rewards of kicking the procrastination habit. They... Read More
If you operate any kind of home business, you must... Read More
Not 1 in 10 people can tell you where money... Read More
"Time is what we need the most and what we... Read More
If you can regularly ask yourself "Am I regularly and... Read More
Work life balance is the new Holy Grail; that search... Read More
Many of us get so caught up in day-to-day pressures... Read More
As I sit here in front of the computer... Read More
We live in a world where more is expected of... Read More
Q. I have several projects going at once -- but... Read More
A year and a half ago I was introduced to... Read More
How do you manage your time? Or is the more... Read More
One of the biggest problems most people have when it... Read More
Are you working a "day job" while building your home-based... Read More
"How do you DO it?!" If I had a dime... Read More
Many people want to be coached to manage their time... Read More
A working manager needs more than time management.That old saying,... Read More
How do you eat two elephants? The same way you... Read More
Many of the world's most driven and successful people sleep... Read More
I've divided my tips into two sections - 5 ways... Read More
Many of us get so caught up in day-to-day pressures... Read More
If you are like most moms I know you think... Read More
Are you drowning in a sea of unread papers? Do... Read More
Procrastination, the habit of putting tasks off to the last... Read More
My husband and I recently returned from a trip to... Read More
"At my back I always hear time's winged chariot hurrying... Read More
Vilfredo Pareto's Principle, or The "Pareto Principle," is more commonly... Read More
Time is inelastic. Despite what some of us persist in... Read More
Let's say that you have a software project that's under... Read More
How you spend the first sixty minutes of your day... Read More
Time management consultant Stephen Young claims that the average time... Read More
Do you wish you could work less and play more?... Read More
"The bad news is time flies. The good news is... Read More
One of the most common complaints that small business owners... Read More
Most of us know how to manage our time. It... Read More
Work life balance is the new Holy Grail; that search... Read More
"I find it interesting that the very cape I tried... Read More
One of the biggest problems most people have when it... Read More
"TIME CANNOT BE 'MANAGED.' THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF TIME MANAGEMENT... Read More
"There is never enough time, unless you're serving it." -Malcolm... Read More
Are you obsessed with getting everything just right? Do you... Read More
Years ago when I started in this business, it seemed... Read More
Too much to do, too little time, constant stress. Most... Read More
Do you manage your time or does your time manage... Read More
Whatever providence has in store for us tomorrow is not... Read More
This may not sound like a big deal. But it's... Read More
One of the issues most often raised by my clients... Read More
Time Management |