Reaping the Fruit of Success in Life

One way to become more successful in your life is to look at the lifestyle and habits of people who are already clearly reaping the fruits of success in life and who are living and growing towards their unique God given potential. What are some common characteristics and behaviour that we can apply to our own lives to help us on our own personal journey towards excellence? I have spent many years studying this area, and have discovered that there are common principles and habits which successful people follow and see positive results many times over. Even people who have achieved great personal growth in their lives know the importance of having established life habits and daily motivation towards their personal goals. Here are three important keys to unleash personal growth.

Three Steps towards Success to Grow You Beyond Better.

1. Believe in yourself

"You weren't an accident. You weren't mass produced. You aren't an assembly-line product. You were deliberately planned, specifically gifted, and lovingly positioned on the Earth by the Master Craftsman" Max Lucado Best Selling Author

We all are born with a unique personality and gifts and abilities. There is a purpose for each person's life and each person possesses all that is needed to fulfill that purpose. For more information on discovering your uniqueness and purpose check out http://www.livingbeyondbetter.com/discovering-your-uniqueness.html

Believing in oneself is a choice we all have to make, sometimes many times a day. It is an attitude that we develop over time. It can be called self confidence, self esteem or self worth. We cannot base our belief about our worth on our past, our circumstances, or other people's opinions. We choose to believe that we are of value, have something to offer to others and the world, and that our life has purpose. The strength of what we allow our mind to think and believe is incredibly powerful. The power of what we believe will become a self fulfilling prophecy over our life. It can be the difference between mediocrity and the results we desire. Successful people acknowledge their limitations, but keep on choosing to believe that anything is possible. It is not what life hands you that is important, but how you respond to it that makes the difference.

2. Become a life long learner

Successful people keep themselves up to date with information, which allows them to be on the cutting edge in their field of influence. As human knowledge has vastly increased, and is more accessible than ever before, so a commitment to life long learning is an important key to success. Making this a daily habit builds a solid foundation for positive growth. Many successful people are committed to reading at least one book every week. If you give one hour a day towards something you would really like to learn or accomplish in your life, it adds up to 365 hours a year! Significant changes can happen in that amount of time. Using throw away time usefully is also a good exercise, for example listening to an audio tape or CD when traveling in the car. To grow beyond better, purposely schedule time into your day which you can use to devote to improving your mind, and increasing your skills. Consciously make the decision to assimilate and apply what you learn.

3. Keep good company.

Surround yourself with positive people. It is so easy to be affected by negativity, and drawn into that way of thinking. Make a point to mix with people who encourage you, inspire you and believe in you. Keep company with people who energize you towards reaching your goals. You tend to become like the people you spend the most time with.

Jim Rohn, a successful author and self-made millionaire wrote: "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with"

Increase the time you spend with positive successful people, and spend less time with those who have a negative influence on you. Being around negativity will decrease your self confidence and create discouragement. Look for new opportunities to mix with successful people. Observe and learn from their attitudes and lifestyle, and adopt and adapt things that might work in your life and situation.

Barbara White, of Beyond Better Development,speaks and writes with passion to inspire and empower people in their journey of personal growth towards the excellence in life that they aspire to.

This article was written for her newsletter Growing Beyond Better

In The News:


pen paper and inkwell


cat break through


How Do You Spell Success

A person who is illiterate can look at a word... Read More

Run Towards Fear: A Prescription for Success

Fear, or negative anxiety, is the modern day bubonic plague,... Read More

The Lazy Mans Way To Riches

The title of this article also happens to be the... Read More

Like It or Not, In This Life... The Name of the Game is Change

Most of us fear change, because - as we've all... Read More

Failure IS an option.

I wrote an article on this very subject, with the... Read More

More Effective Communication - Weight Loss For Your Mouth

Language constitutes our belief system. What we believe is true... Read More

How To Get Out Of The Way Of Your Own Success

Success is something that happens all by itself once you've... Read More

5 Steps to Greater Workplace Productivity

Step 1 ? Learn a powerful key to increase financial... Read More

How a Biscuit Taught Me a Priceless Lesson in Life

There are no two greater ironic comparisons than that of... Read More

Powering Up Your SUCCESS Mechanisms!

An effective self- concept generates the desire to strive for... Read More

7.9 Things I Learned About Success From Darth Vader

Unless you have been living in a cave, you have... Read More

My First Major Failure

Thomas Edison wrote his quote " I have not failed,... Read More

Can Anyone Become A Successful Business Person?

Can anyone become a successful businessperson? I am asked this... Read More

Marching To A New Beat

For our family, the Fall is filled with Friday Night... Read More

Creating Success - A Balance of Thinking and Doing

Why is it that most people still equate being successful... Read More

Discover Your Path to Success - Part 3

If you have read this far, we both know you... Read More

Whos Up For A Challenge?

Depending on the person, challenges can either make or break... Read More

Creating Your Own Success Support System

People who are on the same journey tend to band... Read More

Being a Winner - Ten Tips for Success

Have you ever thought about how you want to live,... Read More

Visualize Your Way to Success

Human beings are visual creatures. Our imaginations are powerful tools... Read More

Become a Dreamer!

Cool Facts: Walt Disney went bankrupt several times before he... Read More

Reach Your Goals - Give Yourself A Gold Star

Give yourself a gold star Remember how rewarding it was... Read More

The 7 Ultimate Laws Of Success

There are certain laws that when obeyed will bring great... Read More

Bad Luck, Bad Choices, and Bad Habits

We were at some friend's house the other day and... Read More

Do You Want to Just Survive or Thrive? (Part 2)

"Fighting to pay the bills is hardly worth it? fight... Read More

What It Takes To Be A Champion

What is a champion really? Sure, all success oriented people... Read More

Great Success Story

Ok, let me tell you what I mean.As some of... Read More

Is Your Life A Minefield ?

Why everything has to be so hard? What have I... Read More

Grow Rich With Your Thought

Our brain is a marvelous creation. It receive and transmit... Read More

Smile Your Way to Success

Smile brings beauty to your face, charm to your personality... Read More

Success: By The Numbers

What is "success"? Why does it seem everyone wants "success"?... Read More

Evaluating Your Associations (Part Two)

Two weeks ago we took a look at the power... Read More

Focus and Determination = Success

FOCUSAs you're building your business, you can choose to win... Read More