We often forget that we are human beings first, and that there is nothing wrong about our making mistakes or having troubles in life ? it is all a part of our growth. We have to allow ourselves to be in situations that can bring us in different direction in our lives. So then, how would you describe yourself?
As humans, our best assets are our feelings and emotions. We cry, laugh and breathe with 'a difference' when we are at ease within our soul. When we allow ourselves to drift in our thoughts, to dream and to follow our inner guidance, we usually end up with the best outcome, as long as we haven't allowed our rational mind to take complete control over the situation, sometimes creating a false perspective. How many times have you been in a situation that seemed so terrible at the time, and thinking back to it few years later, wondered to yourself what all the fuss was about!
How many people in the same family don't talk to each other and when they finally find peace between themselves, they realize that their problem was about something silly and that the major problem was that their "rational" mind had twisted the situation in such a way that they made their experience go in another less positive, direction?
There is an important factor we have to understand, that our soul requires us to learn from the experiences or lessons that we are here for and that is does not require that we go to extremes to benefit from the situation. Think about it ? how many times have you been in a situation where your rational mind or emotions made the situation much more dramatic than it was while for some reason you disregarded the one very important factor and tool that can guide you without exception ? your intuition.
Our intuition is the little voice inside of us that tells us whether or not to do something or makes you feel uneasy about a situation. It is that inner voice that is sometimes called our inner child. Have you ever asked yourself why you avoid listening to your inner voice? Why you disregard your own feelings? When this happens we often end up seeking counsel with best friends and family ? but has it ever happened that they get tired of listening to the same story over and over again and decide to recommend that you try a medium or psychic? We often seek out help when we disregard our own intuition and do not want to accept the answers that we are given in the first place.
So who are these people that call themselves mediums or psychic? Are they from another planet? Are they God's chosen ones? Let's go through some definitions. As you can already see in my previous writings, I like to define things through my own understanding and from my analytical or scientific mind.
Psychics have a gift that attunes them to the energies around them. They are very sensitive people. Mediums have a gift that allows them to be an instrument for spirit to transmit a message, conduct a healing or whatever other task or specialty that can be offered. They are also very sensitive people.
Now you've decided to seek the advice of a psychic and you project onto them what you would like to hear, and basically you will hear what you want to hear. Then if you go again a week later to the same psychic, you will hear new facts according to your new state of mind for that day.
My advice is to start to listen and TRUST in your own intuition first. Learn and understand who you are, and not what other people want you to be. Be responsible and serious about yourself FIRST, your life and the other people involved in your life, then go and seek advice from a psychic or a medium. Not so much to seek an answer to a problem, but more for a CONFIRMATION about what you are already working on ? and that's all!!! Then you will have a good and honest reading. A medium or a psychic does not know you better than you know yourself ? remember that!
How many times do we go to a psychic or a medium to seek advice to find out that their advice really doesn't fit us at all? Why is this? Their message to you can also be for them to hear so that they can fix their own life. How can this be? Very simply, psychics and mediums are HUMAN BEINGS just like you and I, and they have issues, experiences and lessons to deal with in their lives too. They are not any different.
So who am I in all of this equation? I am who I am as a human being and I do my best to help, accommodate, and be there for any human being that crosses my path in this lifetime for whatever reason as long as they are ready to take their PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY seriously. After all it is their work and not mine.
In conclusion, give yourself a break and start to listen and TRUST that inner voice of yours and it will change your life. Have a good reading with a psychic or medium for a confirmation only and not for answers. Be dependent upon yourself and not anyone else.
So have you decided what kind of being you are? The answer is very simple: you are a human being as well as your own best psychic, medium and friend!
Copyright © Joseph Ghabi http://www.freespiritcentre.info
About the Author:
Joseph Ghabi is an author, lecturer, and healer. Joseph provides Intuitive Numerology Consultation, Healing Childhood Experiences Consultation and PhD Candidate living in Montreal Canada.
At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph is natural medium. Joseph started the 'Free Spirit Centre' website at http://www.freespiritcentre.info A community centre devoted to personal growth, self help, soul growth, eating disorders, relationships, healing and human issues. You can find over 800 articles on the site.
Joseph task is in bringing Souls back to realization of their own personal power and into alignment with their own soul purpose and path of evolution.
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