Presently, many of us live in uncertainty. Due to the world situation and the many changes in society, there is a sense that at any time, our lives may be disrupted. Rather than allow this to cause anxiety, it can be viewed as a wonderful teacher coming to wake us up. This insecurity causes us seek another way of finding peace, one that is not based upon external conditions but that comes from within. No matter what is going on in our lives, it is possible to live from another vantage point, to connect with a basic experience of peace and well-being that constitutes the ground of our lives, but is often just out of awareness.
Usually we think of peace as the absence of conflict, change and turmoil, a state which seems impossible to attain in this ever changing world. But the truth of the matter is that turmoil and conflict are not our enemies. It is through difficulty itself that we find the road to lasting harmony. This is the essence of Zen teaching and Zen practice.
The road to lasting harmony is not a passive state. It is a life long practice which must be actively maintained. In scripture it states, "Seek peace and pursue it." This requires dedication, persistence and understanding of what peace truly is. It also requires and mindful attention. These days the stakes are too high not to do this.
The question then becomes how to attain this equilibrium? How do we find that which does not change in a world of constant changes? To begin we must face the fact that life is fleeting and precarious. Change is inevitable. Just as surfers learn to surf the waves, we must become at home with the waves of change. This is accomplished by lessening our clinging and attachment. As we learn to experience and appreciate each moment fully for what it is, we are then able to let it go and be available for the next moment that comes.
The Practice of Peace
There are many areas in which peace needs to be accomplished ? within ourselves, between ourselves and others, and between ourselves and the divine.. When any part is out of balance, a lasting peace cannot be maintained.
A state of peace does not grow out of a false sense of safety, but out of understanding how to interact with the forces we are subjected to. Rather than reacting automatically, we must learn how to best respond. Automatic, habitual reactions lead us and others into blind alleys. Responding, on the other hand, includes response-ability, the power to see things as they are, stay balanced and make an appropriate response. This is the action of seeking peace.
Many may not be aware of the enormous power their choices and actions have upon their lives and the lives of others. It has been said that even a small amount of real love has the power to dissolve mountains of hate. The wonder is why we are so stingy with our good will, why we hold onto thoughts of hatred and revenge. Seeing this is the first step. Letting go comes next.
Rather than pretending to be loving and peaceful, we must learn how to actively work with all that opposes peace. We must learn how to work with our fear and anger when it arises. Even in the midst of anger we can be peaceful, if we learn how to handle it properly. In this way we pursue and practice peace.
Anger Is An Affliction
In this culture the expression of anger is often encouraged. It is thought to be good to assert ourselves in opposition to others, stand up for our rights, not to permit ourselves to become victims of abuse. From this point of view, the expression of anger is seen to be strength. Once we express this anger we feel we are no longer victims. What we do not recognize is that we may still be victims of the anger which rages within.
We justify our anger by deciding that some people are "bad" and worthy of being punished. Others are worthy of punishing them. We do not see that human life is fluid, bad turns to good and the other way around. We can be saints one moment, devils the next. Who we are is a process which contains many permutations. When we choose not to judge and hate others, when we recognize their anger (and our own) for what it is ? a sudden storm and affliction, we do not give it power and it soon evaporates. When we do not return hate for hate, the beginning of peace becomes possible.
When hatred, fear and anger arises it is necessary to become centered and experience them as they are. When we are able to stay steady and balanced during the experience of anger, not go into an automatic reaction and attack in return, the anger dissolves and is inevitably replaced by compassion and insight. We are able to see our part in contributing to the upset and become able to defuse it easily. We grow to see the difference between our true nature and our dualistic, self centered mind.
The Dualistic Self Centered Mind
In its essence the self-centered mind is violent, competitive, full of condemnation and wants good for oneself and not another. It sees enemies wherever it looks, loves to block out reality and superimpose fantasies upon all that occurs. When its personal needs and desires are not met, rage arises, destroying its peace and the peace of others. By learning to recognize the self centered mind for what it is, not support or fuel it in anyway, we become senior to it, stronger than it, and have access to our real nature, the clarity, compassion and wisdom within, which always knows how to resolve conflict and bring lasting peace.
The Power To Bring Harmony
Our state of being has the power to harmonize and change many things. This state of being must be cultivated daily. This state is a mind that responds and does not react. It is a mind that recognizes the truth about anger, and how it can be dissolved easily when it is not seen as something positive. This is what it means to seek peace, and to have the ability to forgive. These are active states which require not only mindfulness and discipline, but true awareness of all that we are capable of. As we cultivate this state of being we become responsive, not reactive. We don't live our lives based upon a knee jerk reaction to all that is going on. Terror cannot overwhelm us then. In fact we can undo the terror, not only for ourselves but for all we come into contact with.
This way of being and practice is beautifully expressed in a zen poem.
"Drinking a cup of green tea, I stopped the war." -Paul Reps.
Cc/author/2005
Discover the 2000 year old Zen secrets to being calm, balanced and positive, no matter what is going on in your life in Dr. Shoshanna's e-book, Living By Zen, (Timeless Truths For Everyday Life), http://www.livingbyzen.com/ Dr. Shoshanna is a psychologist, speaker, workshop leader and the author many books including The Anger Diet (30 Days To Stress Free Living), (pub. Sept. 2005) Andrews McMeel, http://www.theangerdiet.com, and many other books. You can contact her at http://www.brendashoshanna.com/, or Topspeaker@Yahoo.com.
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
When I first heard Donnie McClurkin's song, "We Fall Down... Read More
Universal Law is an invisible influence in every individual's life,... Read More
"No man is a prophet in his own country."That line... Read More
We are apart of all that is, our consciousness spring... Read More
Life is like an obstacle course in which we run... Read More
Your guardian angel is your link to the divine. The... Read More
This article is the 1st part of an open response... Read More
You're probably sabotaging your successful Christian life right now if... Read More
Irish myth has the power to transform your life into... Read More
A while back the Lord had given me this message... Read More
To a shaman a kachina isn't really a doll or... Read More
Actually, loving does not take any great effort on our... Read More
"All you who are thirsty, come and drink." ISAIAH 55:1,... Read More
You have everything you need: a miraculous body, a phenomenal... Read More
Sometimes we're already free but we don't realize it. We... Read More
Have you ever wondered which Angel governs your sign? And... Read More
I beheld the sky and its wonders and saw AstonishmentI... Read More
Be still, and know that I am God; I will... Read More
In the movie "A Beautiful Mind" John Nash (played by... Read More
Those of us, who are familiar with Apostle Paul's sermon... Read More
The world's idea of justice and freedom fall short of... Read More
Oxford dictionary defines PRAYER as "a request for help or... Read More
For the last 35 years, I have been working with... Read More
One of my favorite movies is "The Green Mile". A... Read More
There's a lot of talk about angels these days. They're... Read More
My fiancee' and I frequent a restaurant in L.A. called... Read More
Hiking is gaining popularity within the African-American community. We're beginning... Read More
What does it mean to be comfortable in your own... Read More
We as human beings consider ourselves the most intelligent species... Read More
I am sure many of you reading this article have... Read More
Rose Ann Schwab is an internationally and world renowned professional... Read More
For many years of my life, I thought the spiritual... Read More
The following fragment was found in Qumran along with the... Read More
John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that... Read More
Far to many people have become "followers" rather than BEING... Read More
My lady Lydia was a Hawkins of the ancestry of... Read More
Has America known its finest hour? Are we losing our... Read More
It would be nice if the planet - like so... Read More
It is no doubt that so many of you are... Read More
One of the most frightening things... Read More
AN ARISTOCRATIC UPBRINGING:There are many people who write about sex... Read More
Some of my greatest teachers have taught me that faith... Read More
Believe it or not most astral Attacks are not caused... Read More
Is it really possible that Don Juan could command the... Read More
I was walking down the street the other day, walking... Read More
I'm at that place in life many refer to as... Read More
Hello, My name is Mellody Davis and here is my... Read More
As Christians, we know we need God in every aspect... Read More
I would like to share my experience, working with the... Read More
What is Enlightenment?What do we really mean when we talk... Read More
We, the human species, stand on the threshold of a... Read More
People engaged in kissing experience information and energy transfer, although... Read More
"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisors... Read More
If you would like to learn to read tarot cards,... Read More
The Bible tells us that we must be led by... Read More
Maybe once in a lifetime, we find ourselves seeking spiritual... Read More
Seems that everyone who writes to me signs their letters... Read More
What is the purpose of guilt?Well, let's look at it.Some... Read More
In His graciousness, God has blessed us to enter a... Read More
Human beings originally have three forms of existence. The first... Read More
There once was a man who wanted to teach himself... Read More
How does God see you? Does He like what He... Read More
MOST PEOPLE NEVER REALLY CHANGESad, but true.Some people never even... Read More
Connor, a man in his late 40's, has achieved everything... Read More
The chakras are different coloured energy centres that originate from... Read More
Most of us know that the universe - God's universe... Read More
Spirituality |