For many years I had a good life. My illness was reasonably under control, I had a nice relationship with my husband, I did work I didn't hate. It was, as I said, a good life.
But there's a saying that the good is the enemy of the best. I finally realized this one day, and began making my best life. I changed doctors and got on new medication that completely relieved my symptoms, rather than just making them easier to deal with. I started talking more with my husband and listening to what he had to say. And I quit my job and started working for myself.
I have the best life I've ever had. I'd call it great. It is possible there's a better life out there for me, which would then be my "best life," but for now I don't think so. We were able to buy a house a few months ago, and though it nearly killed me I painted and redecorated so it's really us. I've started a business I love. My husband and kids are wonderful. I have a good friend and I'm close to my older sister who lives in town. Could it get better? I suppose so. But for me I think this is the best life I can have right now.
Think about your life. Where are you settling? Are you in a job you just don't mind? Are you having minor relationship problems? What makes your life "good"? Why isn't it great? What's the enemy of the best and what can you do about it?
You deserve your best life. We're only here for a short while, and we all need to have the best possible time we can. It's like going to Disney World. If you spend too much time standing in line waiting for the ride, pretty soon your time's up. Get out of the "good" line and have your best life.
About The Author
Angie Dixon helps small business owners get their acts together. She is a personal development coach specializing in helping people integrate their home and work lives so they feel less stretched and more balanced. Get her FREE EBOOK on balance at http://www.discoveringtruenorth.com. For questions or to discover how coaching can change your life, contact Angie at mailto:angie@discoveringtruenorth.com.
You are free to use this article in ezines, web sites and print publications. If you do use it, please send a quick email to mailto:angie@discoveringtruenorth.com. Thank you.
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
Recently, I came across something strikingly shocking, fascinating, obscure, and... Read More
How a few people become the worst victims of life's... Read More
Communication, which occupies approximately 70% of our waking hours, is... Read More
In the column Plants, Herbs and Roots For Prosperity, I... Read More
What you need to understand is that there is no... Read More
A man is captive within himself. He dwells in a... Read More
Imagine trying to drive at night in your car with... Read More
Are you having a difficult time pinpointing what you want... Read More
Stepping outside your old limitations and 'out of the box'... Read More
We live in a very busy age with many pressures... Read More
If you've done any reading on the subject of marketing,... Read More
When my wife and I were searching for a new... Read More
These eight success secrets apply to anything you do in... Read More
For many years I had a good life. My illness... Read More
That's all it takes to change the world. Take a... Read More
If you think success, happiness and love are going to... Read More
We all have the power to change our lives. What... Read More
Many of us mistakenly believe that it's wrong or conceited,... Read More
How many times have you told yourself "yes!" today? Not... Read More
Hello Creative Entrepreneurs!I hope this finds you all doing well... Read More
"Before I had a lot of money, I was really... Read More
It's time for the "mainstream" to WAKE UP. The alarm... Read More
Each relationship combines two individual stories to coauthor a new... Read More
How well do you understand how gut instincts ? yours... Read More
Do you know anybody that you consider to be particularly... Read More
Confidence without competence is a dangerous combination. Make it easy... Read More
Charm did not play a very large role in that... Read More
Watch your thoughts; they become words.Watch your words; they become... Read More
Have you noticed how the workplace seems to be a... Read More
It's a common scenario. Although the specific circumstances may differ,... Read More
I would like you to give your full attention to... Read More
Speed Up the Evolution!1. Check the area where you are... Read More
With all the media attention you've probably become aware that... Read More
We are all different. We are all the same. Whereas... Read More
Did you ever wonder why it sometimes seems that communications... Read More
Few people are prepared for the responsibilities and tasks involved... Read More
Maybe can be a great place. It's full of possibility,... Read More
It is arguable that the definition of wealth is the... Read More
Seth, the very high level, spiritual teacher and guide channeled... Read More
Breakthrough Scientific Research on the Amoeba And Why You Must... Read More
The questions of life may call to you. You may... Read More
Most business people would rather have customers seek us out... Read More
Language, whether it's emerging from our mind, our heart, or... Read More
Remember back in school days when you needed a permission... Read More
Each relationship combines two individual stories to coauthor a new... Read More
I'm sure most of you have heard of, and perhaps... Read More
You are what you think;The experts say we barely use... Read More
How are you feeling now?The answer to this question determines... Read More
That's all it takes to change the world. Take a... Read More
Last week, I had the privilege of leading a 4-day... Read More
Character is that which defines us; it's what people will... Read More
Being a child of the Seventies I'm a real fan... Read More
If you are not manifesting success and prosperity or whatever... Read More
So you've read "Think and Grow Rich", and you've got... Read More
I was accused recently of being unfocused. This lady challenged... Read More
I believe in myself, therefore, I have all that my... Read More
You only have to look around you at your friends,... Read More
Hello Creative Entrepreneurs!I hope this finds you all doing well... Read More
"You make a living by what you get. You make... Read More
We all experience a little shyness at times with people... Read More
Not everyone is programmed to be a successful businessperson, many... Read More
There are times in life when we wish to create... Read More
Imagine there is an event that will take place in... Read More
I was reminded once again the other day about how... Read More
Many individuals believe that they have to "live up" to... Read More
Ancient lore tells us that there's a magical genie who... Read More
Attraction |