For many years I had a good life. My illness was reasonably under control, I had a nice relationship with my husband, I did work I didn't hate. It was, as I said, a good life.
But there's a saying that the good is the enemy of the best. I finally realized this one day, and began making my best life. I changed doctors and got on new medication that completely relieved my symptoms, rather than just making them easier to deal with. I started talking more with my husband and listening to what he had to say. And I quit my job and started working for myself.
I have the best life I've ever had. I'd call it great. It is possible there's a better life out there for me, which would then be my "best life," but for now I don't think so. We were able to buy a house a few months ago, and though it nearly killed me I painted and redecorated so it's really us. I've started a business I love. My husband and kids are wonderful. I have a good friend and I'm close to my older sister who lives in town. Could it get better? I suppose so. But for me I think this is the best life I can have right now.
Think about your life. Where are you settling? Are you in a job you just don't mind? Are you having minor relationship problems? What makes your life "good"? Why isn't it great? What's the enemy of the best and what can you do about it?
You deserve your best life. We're only here for a short while, and we all need to have the best possible time we can. It's like going to Disney World. If you spend too much time standing in line waiting for the ride, pretty soon your time's up. Get out of the "good" line and have your best life.
About The Author
Angie Dixon helps small business owners get their acts together. She is a personal development coach specializing in helping people integrate their home and work lives so they feel less stretched and more balanced. Get her FREE EBOOK on balance at http://www.discoveringtruenorth.com. For questions or to discover how coaching can change your life, contact Angie at mailto:angie@discoveringtruenorth.com.
You are free to use this article in ezines, web sites and print publications. If you do use it, please send a quick email to mailto:angie@discoveringtruenorth.com. Thank you.
In studying wealth, we learn the power of using our... Read More
When the mind was fidgety, like a monkeyWhen you felt... Read More
First of all, you have to trust that you are... Read More
Charm did not play a very large role in that... Read More
Here we continue to discuss a few commonly held beliefs,... Read More
For the last several years, I have included on my... Read More
What do you do when circumstances seem out of control?... Read More
The power of the mind draws certain events, circumstances and... Read More
Have you ever had an overwhelming problem or issue? Was... Read More
An ideal is not the dream that can never be... Read More
Imagine there is an event that will take place in... Read More
Using affirmations can be a very powerful tool. You can... Read More
One of the first great things I learned when starting... Read More
Have you been struggling with making ends meet? Are you... Read More
It's time for the "mainstream" to WAKE UP. The alarm... Read More
You've heard me talk in previous articles about Deliberate attraction.... Read More
Confidence without competence is a dangerous combination. Make it easy... Read More
Is your home office a spare room full of whatever... Read More
There is an inherent problem with the approach most people... Read More
Are you living your life, the way you want to... Read More
Australians are losing their laidback, carefree reputation, as we continue... Read More
Have you been in that "black hole?" That is the... Read More
Ever been in a meeting with something important to say... Read More
Here is a non-scientific, but fun way to see which... Read More
When you have an important event to attend there are... Read More
There are several books now that discuss the power of... Read More
In my private practice for the past 15 years I... Read More
Very often in relationships we do not seem to be... Read More
Communication, which occupies approximately 70% of our waking hours, is... Read More
Character or Reputation. When we see these two words together,... Read More
There is an art and a science to prosperity. The... Read More
Gnothi seauton,, said Socrates. "Know thyself."These words remain as true... Read More
Is there a way to change your life condition, and... Read More
We have all heard the expression, "if at first you... Read More
Nowadays the terms self-improvement, self-growth and self-help have become popular.... Read More
There was a woman who was in such a hurry... Read More
These eight success secrets apply to anything you do in... Read More
Do you know anyone who always seems to have bad... Read More
Would you rather be wealthy or poverty-stricken? Not a difficult... Read More
In the USA we celebrate Thanksgiving on the fourth Thursday... Read More
Are you tired of struggling and trying to realize your... Read More
Last week I was driving along one of the major... Read More
Character or Reputation. When we see these two words together,... Read More
When you were a kid, did you play with magnets?... Read More
If you are not manifesting success and prosperity or whatever... Read More
The Law of ThanksgivingIt's easy to be grateful around the... Read More
You probably know a few. These gals marry the millionaire.... Read More
Max jumped on my chest as soon as the first... Read More
It's been said that character is defined by what you... Read More
There's a big opportunity here! The holidays bring a change... Read More
Feeling trapped by lack of funds? We can learn from... Read More
First of all, you have to trust that you are... Read More
Precious, brilliant and expensive-why wouldn't diamonds be a girl's best... Read More
... Read More
There is a thread of certainty that runs through many... Read More
1. The most important one: Have at least one person... Read More
Go into the fields and country lanes in the spring-time,... Read More
What do we all strive for in life? Success! Success... Read More
One of our Faculty, Christine Edick, has been the keynote... Read More
I've navigated plenty of speed bumps on life's road. My... Read More
Recently I had the opportunity to meet a long term... Read More
First, I'll need to explain what Law of Attraction is... Read More
What do people want most in the world? What is... Read More
What is a values-based life? A values-based life is a... Read More
Not having much luck in love lately? Relationship falling apart?... Read More
I am a physicist by education, and a practical business... Read More
Attraction |