CHESS-MATE
If you're one of those guys telling to yourself that Antonio Banderas might be a little prettier then you but again your IQ beats that of Einstein by an inch, than the next lines were written for you. You have to know how to use your advantage against a two-digit IQ macho-man and this is no easy deal. Some studies even say that intelligence alone is actually not too sexy to most people. Therefore it would be wiser to use intelligent ways to seduce a woman then just act smart.
There are more ways to do this, some better and some worse. For example, you can be immoral enough to use your wits just to have sex, by manipulating women. For this "hit-and-run" approach you'll need a little more than just your intelligence, you'll have to know how the human mind, women's in particular, work in order to outsmart them, control the game and win it using their own weapons. But before you get to keen on the idea just remember that there are other, more honest ways of winning a woman's admiration.
All of our actions, interacting with the opposite sex included, involve a little risk taking. If you think you are the hit-and-run type of guy maybe you should watch Cruel Intentions and destroy all the excitement that comes with the game. But if you're not then just "go with the flow" and see what happens. Gamble a little and let romance play its natural role in a relationship.
If you take things even further into consideration you might end up concluding that every single word and gesture we do when we interact with another person has its risky part in it. Saying "HI" to a stranger on the street, asking someone on a date, asking for her phone number in the middle of the date or trying to get the first kiss at the end of the night... There are always two possibilities: the YES possibility and the NO possibility. But would it be so exciting if you wouldn't take all these risks?
Compare this interaction with a snow boulder! With each risk you decided to take the boulder gets bigger and heavier. And if all goes well it will get big enough to become unstoppable. That's when you can say that you have a real relation.
Playing the game smartly also includes playing it honestly. The hit-and-run guys pose as the feminist sensitive men while using their wits to control the game and reach their goals. But sincerity is about something else, it's about being yourself.
More than that it is about being comfortable with who you are entirely. It's about doing what you want to do and not fear that you will lose something because of your actions. And most importantly it's about honestly not want something in particular from a woman because seducing a woman is not a goal in itself, is not a hunting game, nor a chess game. It's just our way of finding the other half.
Learn more ways to seduce women today. Go to http://www.powerdatingexplosion.com
Caterina Christakos is a dating coach and author. For you free seduction guide go to: http://www.what-women-want.com
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