There is a cool little game for spicing up your long-term or fuck-buddy relationships.
Here is how:
Both you and your girlfriend have to get 20 pieces of paper and make 20 different cards. Each card has an idea on it: you write down things you would like her to do and she does the same with stuff she wants you to do.
There are three kinds of cards: sex, romance and adventure. (If you are doing this with a fuck-buddy, drop the latter two.) Each card is two sided. On the outside there is the name of the category, at the inside there is what you would like the other person to do. It should look something like this:
Backside: "Sex" Inside: "Sex in the elevator"
Each of you has to make 10 sex cards, and choose how you split up romance and adventure cards among the other 10. When you are finished comes the fun part.
Each week, one of you chooses from the cards of the other person. The cards are put into a hat and you have to draw a random card. After drawing, you don't look inside yet. You see what kind of card it is (Sex, Romance, Adventure) and decide whether to keep it or not. If you choose to keep it, you have to fulfill whatever it is on the card. If you drop it, choose another card till you draw a different kind. Put the sex cards that you didn't use back to the other cards.
After a card is drawn, it's out of the game. The one week period between draws can be shortened or extended. Before making the cards, agree with your partner on some rules. Like she shouldn't expect you to take her on a vacation to Thailand, and you shouldn't expect her to go on the street naked.
Here are a few examples for each topic:
Sex:
Sex in the elevator
Sex in the changing room
Sex in your car or at a public place
Phone sex from two public phones on the street
Your girlie has to come with you to the shopping center without bras and panties under her clothes
She has to swallow your cum when doing oral
Tying your partner to the bed
You buy her an extreme lingerie which she has to wear 5 times, when you choose to
She has to let you go anal with her
She has to drive to you with only a coat on and nothing underneath
You make a home-video together
Romance:
A candlelight dinner with your lover in a restaurant which she chooses (you pay)
A romantic evening at the Opera
Visiting the theatre
Having a picnic at the nearby forest
Visiting a delphinarium
You rent a 4-star hotel room for the weekend in your city (as long as your financial situation allows it)
A long weekend at one of the rural areas while visiting some monuments
Adventure:
Go-kart racing
Bungee jumping
Jet-skiing on the local lake
Parachuting
Going rock climbing together
A ride on the biggest roller coaster in the fun park
Going to an aqua park
Note: I hope I don't have to say that you should only do most of these in a longer relationship, where your partner trusts you totally! The only exception is a fuck-buddy relationship in which case it depends on the girl and how adventurous she is.
For more tips and secrets on keeping long and successful relationships and also seducing the hottest women, check out my book "All About Women" at www.seduction-and-dating.com. It's packed with up to date information on each step of not just getting but also keeping the kind of girls you crave for.
-Giuseppe Notte
An adventure with the opposite sex
Giuseppe Notte had to learn things the hard way. For years of his life, he had no success at all with women. That is until he stood up for himself and decided to take control of his life. He went on a journey to model guys who were very successful with women. He has spent day after day, month after month and year after year learning from other guys, various books and materials on the topic of seduction, and his own experience. After a few years of studying, he managed to sort out what works and what does not. By that time he had no problems getting the kind of women most men only crave for. He has taught many of his friends the secrets of seduction, and due to their encouragement, he had started to write a book on the topic in 2004. After months of hard work, All About Women: The Encyclopedia Of Seduction was born revealing Giuseppe's secrets.
As Giuseppe says, there is nothing more important than the will to learn from your mistakes and change yourself for better. If you have that down there will be NOTHING that you can't reach in your life.
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