Don?t Snuff Out Expressions of Liking

It is hard to express all the emotions to somebody whom you love the most. Although one wants to share all those things which he/she has in his/her heart. But one can do nothing, whenever he/she goes to the person whom he/she loves the most.

"Emotions are such a strange reality which is difficult to express but can not be suppressed". (Usman Zafar Paracha)

Now I am going to tell you some very interesting things. Now, you have not to let your emotions nip in the bud. You can say any thing. All you have to do is

1. Just change your sentences' words holding the same meanings.

This may change the wordings but the original meanings must not be vanished. Often, you'll find that by changing the words you'll get a more profound effect of your thoughts on the person whom you are talking.

2. Match your behavior with him/her.

The second and another most powerful form of telling somebody are matching you with his/her demeanor.

3. Life works on telepathy sometime.

How strange it is that sometimes when you see that particular person whom you love, he/she already was looking at you or started looking you at the same time. Yes, this is a form of telepathy. According to some researchers, a type of hormone namely "Pheromone" is released from everybody i.e., Body and Body's perspiration etc. And this is the thing which causes you to attract towards a particular person. This is involuntary way of telling somebody about your thinking.

4. Speak many times what you want to say to that person.

Practice makes the man perfect.

(i)?Practice the sentence in front of a mirror or somebody with whom you are very close e.g., your friend etc.

(ii)?Speak that sentence in your mind many times. It will give you confidence and may be it will show telepathic results.

5. Read books.

You may think what the relation of reading and expression is?. I must have to say that the most powerful relation is in these things. You must have the habit of reading books and magazines. Books containing some interesting stories of "Tender Emotions" will give you many of the interesting ideas and sentences to say in front of that person whom you love. Some websites are particularly helpful to you for reading.

6. LearnBody language.

You can say something in body language. Certain of your body's movements will help you to say that particular sentence. So, be careful and decisive in your body's movements.

7. Last but not the least.

Just remember the word "LIKE".
"L" for "Liking"
"I" for "Is"
"K" for "Killing"
"E" for "Egotism"

"Liking Is Killing Egotism". Do the thing which is not only in favor of you but also in that persons' favor. It will help you a lot to say what's in your heart and mind.

And it must be in every persons' mind that self-importance(egotism) is the killer of all those relations whom you "LIKE" (very much). So,

"Kill the Killer Who have the habit of Killing."
(Usman Zafar Paracha)

Usman Zafar Paracha,
B-Pharmacy, Final Proff.

Founder of http://www.zafar-paracha.blogspot.com

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