Does the thought of speaking in front of others send you running in the opposite direction? Youâ??re not alone. Many people avoid public speaking at all costs â?" and there is a cost. Public speaking is one of the quickest, most efficient ways to market yourself, your message, business, or cause. Those who are willing to make presentations immediately stand out from the majority who are not. Whether itâ??s an audience of five people or 500, itâ??s worth it to invest in your skills.
After coaching hundreds of clients in presentation skills, Iâ??m convinced that anyone can improve and gain confidence by following a few simple techniques:
Know Your Audience. Most presentations fail because the speaker never took the time to find out anything about his audience. Knowing your audience means finding out as much information as possible in advance so that you can successfully match your message to their interests and needs. Helpful information includes: gender breakdown, average age, and their current or past experience with your topic. If itâ??s not possible to learn your audience in advance, then at the very least, arrive early and spend a few minutes meeting people. Or, begin your presentation by asking some general questions like, â??Who has experience withâ?¦?â?? This also helps to calms nerves as you are taking the focus off you, and putting it on your audience where it belongs.
Forget Memorizing. One of the biggest fears Iâ??ve heard from my clients is that theyâ??ll freeze up and forget what comes next. That can happen if you try to memorize your entire speech. All it takes is forgetting one word to trip you up. Instead, only memorize the opening and closing. Looking directly at your audience when you start and finish makes a strong, positive impression. For the middle section, itâ??s fine to glance at note cards with bullet points, or refer to your PowerPoint presentation to jog your memory. Do not, however, write out your whole speech word for word! Youâ??ll be tempted to read it instead of connecting with your audience.
Open with a Bang. Itâ??s important to grab attention immediately. A good opening sparks interests, sets expectations, previews whatâ??s to come, and offers benefits. There are several ways to start: ask a question, tell a story, humor (careful with this one unless youâ??re naturally funny), quotes, dramatic statistics, or music/video. Give your audience a reason to listen, and build your credibility as the best person to be speaking on this topic.
Make it Memorable. Signposting is a way to help your audience follow and remember what youâ??re saying. Phrases that focus listening are: â??The point is this,â?? and â??The most important thing to remember is.â?? Another strategy is to number your points as in, â??Iâ??ll be offering three ideas, the first one isâ?¦â??
In Closing. Audiences are most likely to remember the last thing they hear. A strong closing should be memorized and review your main points. Motivate the audience to do something â?" take an action, ask a question, have an emotional response, or think differently. Make it clear what it is youâ??re asking them to do (and if you donâ??t know, re-think the purpose of your speech).
Calming Nervousness. Most nerves are caused when the speaker focuses on himself instead of the audience. A speaker might think to himself, â??What if I say something stupid?â?? or â??I hope I donâ??t trip.â?? That kind of self-absorption puts up a wall between you and the audience. By shifting your focus to the audience, youâ??ll forget about yourself and start connecting with them. Second, some nervousness is a good thing! Itâ??s an indication that you care what your audience thinks and can serve as a strong motivator to do well. The goal is not to eliminate nerves, but to use that energy in a positive way.
Susan Fee is a licensed counselor, communications expert, and author of Positive First Impressions: 83 Ways to Establish Confidence, Competence, and Trust (available through her Web site at http://www.susanfee.com). She specializes in coaching individuals in making successful presentations.
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
SUCCESSFUL DEMONSTRATIONS: All of us have seen demonstrations in one... Read More
Delivering humorous speeches involves a lot more than simply having... Read More
Tomorrow's the day and you're dreading it. You're scheduled to... Read More
Some speakers say, "I could never use humor in my... Read More
This article will help you to assess and maximise the... Read More
Whether you are training preschoolers in the classroom or executives... Read More
What would we do without our cell phones? Wow, there's... Read More
I had a chance to go to one of those... Read More
You've spent a lot of time preparing your PowerPoint presentations... Read More
DEVELOPING LESSON PLANS: In developing lesson plan formats, two things... Read More
The communication process can be much more difficult than a... Read More
ALTERNATIVES TO THE LECTURE FORMAT: How often do you use... Read More
You don't have to be on a stage to be... Read More
Communication is a complex and often difficult process for both... Read More
For communication to take place, a message must be transmitted... Read More
How many times have you attended a meeting where the... Read More
The social skills of a small businessperson, franchisee, independent contractor... Read More
Ever had that uncomfortable feeling of not knowing where to... Read More
Allowing the audience to ask questions after your presentation is... Read More
Myth 1: Executives belong in meetings.Although the demands of business... Read More
Communicating Bad News The Right WayIt's the rare executive who... Read More
THE LITTLE-KNOWN SPEECHWRITING SECRETS THAT WON GEORGE W. BUSH THE... Read More
What is stage presence? Can it be learned?There are, undoubtedly,... Read More
As I travel around the world I always enjoy sampling... Read More
Calling a projector hire company will often get you confused... Read More
Communication is vital for survival in an age of information... Read More
Eye contact is mandatory when giving a public presentation.The goal... Read More
Converting PowerPoint to Flash would be absolutely a good choice... Read More
Whenever and whatever you're pitching, dozens of factors will figure... Read More
Most people love to hide behind the lectern.. It makes... Read More
When its time to give your next sales presentation, here... Read More
"I have a love/hate relationship with PowerPoint. In the right... Read More
Whether you use a mouse or a remote control to... Read More
Summer is here! It's time to bring out your summer... Read More
So you're going to have a booth at a trade... Read More
Converting PowerPoint to Flash would be absolutely a good choice... Read More
Regardless of the nature of our job or social standing,... Read More
Interview with Julia Apple-Smith, Manager of Employee Development at Sauer-Danfoss... Read More
A trade show is an ideal way of showcasing your... Read More
Whether you are training preschoolers in the classroom or executives... Read More
Imagine you are the most amazing figure skater who ever... Read More
Every day, so many tens of thousands of innocent clients... Read More
What is it about overhead projectors that causes us to... Read More
Most people love to hide behind the lectern.. It makes... Read More
One of the biggest mistakes most presenters make is in... Read More
Have you ever had to give a speech?Do you remember... Read More
Delivering humorous speeches involves a lot more than simply having... Read More
In March 2002, the comic strip Beetle Bailey contained a... Read More
MORE and more corporations in Malaysia have awoken to the... Read More
Tip #1 The purpose of your speech is to get... Read More
THE LITTLE-KNOWN SPEECHWRITING SECRETS THAT WON GEORGE W. BUSH THE... Read More
Many experienced trainers feel that there is something lacking in... Read More
Company attire says a lot about your business philosophy to... Read More
Many of us use PowerPoint to convey a message to... Read More
Communicating Bad News The Right WayIt's the rare executive who... Read More
Are poor presentations costing you business?The ability to deliver a... Read More
Do you ever get frustrated with your marketing? Are you... Read More
The most critical job of a manager, when you boil... Read More
People love stories. We love to hear about other people,... Read More
(Excerpted From the Jim Rohn Millennium Weekend Event)Persistence in your... Read More
Although there are any number of different networking groups and... Read More
Flash chart, flash map, flash graph may be mistaken for... Read More
People take it for granted that leaders have achieved some... Read More
Cattiness is something no one ever wants to be accused... Read More
There is an old saying: "The first thing to do... Read More
What is stage presence? Can it be learned?There are, undoubtedly,... Read More
Presentation |