Being the next Carmen Electra or Paris Hilton might or might not appeal to all you, but there are things that do appeal to you, and you don't do them.
Maybe this is because you lacked the confidence to reach out for it or maybe this is because you just we're not sure it was right for you.
In this article I want to help you use lack of confidence as your indicator ? showing you when you should clearly hold back and when you should go for it.
The first thing you need to get clear on is what you want. You need to know what your outcome is going to be. When I say this I don't just mean in any old day-to-day situation, I mean in your life as a whole.
There's an effective way to look at your life as a whole, gain clarity and boost your confidence all in one shot. Shall I share how with you?
There is nothing more effective in creating confidence than knowing how you want things to work out. When you do this you educate yourself. From the point of knowledge you can make an educated decision and literally pivot your whole life from where you are now to your ultimate destiny? and all the success and happiness you can imagine.
If you know clearly the 'what' and the 'why' of your life then you can look at daily events and never again need to consider if you have the ability or if you can or can't pull it off.
When you know the 'what' and the why' you look at life differently. You no longer look at your life and question your ability with can I or can't I or could I or should I questions. Knowing 'what' and 'why' gives you a new kind of power.
When you know 'what' and 'why' you look at daily events and never question your ability. You do this because you now know clearly how life is going to be. The question you will now ask yourself is: will I? And this subtle question can change your life.
When you're focussed on your meaning and direction instead of your level of ability your energy becomes channelled and focussed. It hones in on the outcome with such clarity that your chances of success literally explode.
The most powerful way I've found to find the 'what' and the why' and you're meaning and direction is to work on what your life is all about. You do this by discovering and understanding Life Purpose.
Life Purpose is based on the idea that you have a unique gift and a distinctive way of expressing it that will benefit others. When you discover and understand your life purpose you unlock your full potential.
Know what and know why.
I hope these words have helped you.
Love & Best Wishes
Jo Ball
Coach & Founder, Unstoppable Life
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