I am not a golfer, unless you count an occasional game of putt-putt. I'm not even a fan of the game. But I am a fan of excellence, and so the following quotes by golfing great Tiger Woods recently caught my attention:
"I smile at obstacles."
"My will can move mountains."
"I will do it with all my heart."
This is a great approach to solving problems and facing challenges in life.
"I smile at obstacles."
What a novel approach. Most of the time, we cringe, avoid and complain instead. Unfortunately, none of that solves a problem. Often, problems just get worse.
Smiling at obstacles means we know that we're bigger than the problems facing us, because we know we will learn and become stronger and wiser through solving them.
Instead of complaining about challenges, we can see them as gifts. Most every problem or challenge comes with a gift in its hands. The gift is what we will learn through solving the problems and facing the challenges.
Several years ago I worked in a drug rehab program for teenagers. Late one evening, as I talked with one of the staff about the crises of the day, I said "You know what, whatever we do in the rest of our careers will have to be easier than this." Scott's response was, "Either that, or this is just preparing us for what's next."
Scott was right. Problems and challenges can either define you or refine you. When you embrace the situation in front of you, you are refined like gold.
"My will can move mountains"
This does not mean that our will is the be all and end all of any given situation, or that our will can get us anything we want. Frankly, if humans are the be all and end all, we are all in big trouble. What this quote means, I believe, is that when we focus our energy on the problems before us, they are in trouble. The ability to understand where you are, look at where you exactly want to go, create a plan to get there, and then work the plan for all you are worth brings incredible rewards.
Focused action can move the mountains in front of you. But too many times we are like the frog in this riddle: "Three frogs were sitting in a pond on a lily pad when one decided to jump off. How many frogs were left?" Most people say two. The correct answer is three, because while the frog may have decided to jump, he did not jump off.
While it's important to decide to do something, focused action is the only way to get the results you want.
"I will do it with all my heart"
I believe most people sleepwalk through life. Just stand outside a large office building on a Monday morning. You'll see people in trances, sleepwalking through their day.
Yet when we bring all our heart to any activity, we come alive and actually have the opportunity to live the way we say we want to.
All of us know folks who brings their whole heart to what they do. Don't you love being around them?
Why not be one of those people yourself?
When we bring our whole heart to a problem or challenge, it is easier to solve, and we just might have fun along the way.
There is a saying that there is a time in the life of every problem or challenge when it is big enough to notice, and small enough to solve easily.
When you bring these three skills to the table, you will notice problems early, solve them easily and grow more than you ever thought you would.
Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships.com for tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f*r*e*e 10 day e-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
|
![]() |
Goals stalled? Always running behind? Stuck in a rut?Procrastination means... Read More
Lately, I've become super sensitive to the amount of excuses... Read More
In other words, it is in the "doing" that we... Read More
Some people, after they reach their mid and upper adult... Read More
Creativity can be defined as problem identification and idea generation... Read More
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in... Read More
Achieving excellence in our work is an integral part of... Read More
What is the dictionary definition of a procrastinator? It is... Read More
Have you ever wondered what's really holding you back from... Read More
Just about everybody owns or has owned a bucket of... Read More
Looking for a way to handle a setback?Edward W. Smith,... Read More
We're all aware of how important teamwork is and how... Read More
For over 20 years I have been fascinated by the... Read More
This is a key to lasting motivation and beating procrastination.If... Read More
Do you want to know your poverty graph? You are... Read More
Very shortly, in this paragraph, I'm going to share with... Read More
Procrastination is a complicated behavior that affects all people to... Read More
"You can't get anywhere in anything without work, action, movement..whatever... Read More
In a world where dynamism alters egos and principles in... Read More
Enjoy a great quote to start off this fantastic week!"All... Read More
Procrastination is of no use to you in your quest... Read More
The tension was palpable in the room as I began... Read More
"Have you ever felt like you've become the worst possible... Read More
There is one sure way to get what you want... Read More
Carol was a new client. She had been looking for... Read More
Ever feel like quitting? "Are you kidding?" you ask, "A... Read More
The motivation to change my oil came the other day... Read More
To Feel Confident ? A C TA new, more exciting... Read More
Knowledge fueled by emotion equals action. Action is the ingredient... Read More
Who are the most courageous people in the world? Armed... Read More
The motivation for good or bad which we get from... Read More
Your ability to move into action and to achieve bottom... Read More
Now, the Fun Part. It is nigh time to find... Read More
When I listen to people tell me about some of... Read More
Never underestimate the power of persistence!If you persist you really... Read More
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SELF-MOTIVATION FOR TRAINERS: Lack of self-motivation is... Read More
Allow me to start this with a quote:To think too... Read More
Engaging in genuine discipline requires that you develop the ability... Read More
What is Accelerated learning?Simply put, accelerated learning is the ability... Read More
1. "If you have faith the size of a mustard... Read More
A great life doesn't happen by accident. A great life... Read More
Are you sick and tired of not getting ahead and... Read More
Writing your own obituary sounds and feels a little strange,... Read More
1. Women have learned and are in the habit of... Read More
Every day clients tell me about their problems, often in... Read More
As I usually do over the Holidays, I watched one... Read More
Here are five feelings we all experience in changing times.... Read More
Everyone wants success. People talk about setting goals and positive... Read More
We encounter constant changes throughout our life; it could be... Read More
Doesn't it just burn you up when you have just... Read More
If a total stranger came up to you and said:... Read More
There were four generations sitting at the kitchen table, smacking... Read More
If you really want to become rich, then begin by... Read More
"M" is for Motivation.What motivates you to do a good... Read More
Wherever you go, there you are. This is the title... Read More
Where have you come from this past year? What have... Read More
Cherish Enthusiasm Live with passion Excitement Belief Rejoice Attitude and... Read More
The natural cycle of life is to grow and move... Read More
I watched as an 8-year-old All-Star slid dramatically into second... Read More
As a life coach, I often hear people say they... Read More
Whatever happened to all the dreams? The wants, the desires,... Read More
I've always heard that "public speaking" is the number one... Read More
(Excerpted from The Power of Ambition series)What is the origin... Read More
Many people are too busy today trying to fit themselves... Read More
Being let go; suffering redundancy; experiencing downsizing are all very... Read More
Denial is a coping mechanism commonly used when something happens... Read More
Motivation |