It would be a fairly safe bet that if you are reading this article then you are on the lookout for something more in your life than what you already have.
Whether you are searching for a new business, a new opportunity, a part-time income or even a lotto system it all stems from one source - dissatisfaction of present circumstances.
Now you might already be quite successful at what you do, so you might be coming from a position of boredom. Nevertheless, what you are seeking is change. Let me tell you a little secret...
There will be NO change in your life until there is a change in YOU.
Heraclitus, the Greek philosopher said, as far back as the sixth Century BC, "It is in changing that things find purpose."
Do you want to change or do you want to keep driving a Volkswagen and pretending it is a Porsche? You are the only person who can make it happen.
Basically, if you want more out of life you have to put more into life. A fundamental way to do this is to start educating yourself.
How can you expect more in the ensuing years when the operating system in your brain is the same one that you left school with?
Everything changes all the time.
Maybe you need to change also. Re-invent yourself. Start a new exciting phase in your life. Time waits for nobody.
There are many people who I speak with who have never read a single book or attended any sort of learning experience since they left school. I actually think that's rather sad but some of them are even proud of it. Yet when the conversation continues out pours all their problems, all their hard luck and "woe-is-me" stories.
If you're still with me I want to ask you three questions but I would like you to think a little bit before you answer. It will probably take you a short while to answer the first question with a degree of accuracy.
So here it is, the first question: "How much time did you spend last week feeding your stomach?" Your answer doesn't have to be exact but you should be able to work out some sort of reasonably accurate figure. Jot the answer down somewhere.
Second question: "How much time did you spend feeding your brain?" Most people will not need anywhere near as long to answer this question. Unfortunately, for many, the answer to question two will be ZERO.
So here is my third question and it's a pretty simple one. "Why? Why do you spend so much time feeding your stomach and so little time feeding your brain?"
These questions are not meant to belittle anybody. Rather, I just want you to think about the issue.
Thinking intensely about things will often lead to action and when action is taken your world can change. That is what you want, isnt it?
Non-achievers are the excusers of society. By default they become excusiologists. They spend a lot of time and effort making excuses for poor performance. The crazy thing is that all that time and effort which was wasted on achieving nothing could easily have been used doing something positive.
You can easily recognise an excusiologist by their language.
"I'm not smart enough!" Rubbish. You don't have to be a genius to achieve. You just have to be willing to learn. Are you willing to learn?
"Nobody in my family has ever been successful." Great. Here's a chance to show them something new. Break the family trend.
"I've never had any luck." Really? Maybe God thinks you don't need it. The harder you work the luckier you will get.
Be careful about what comes out of your mouth. What do most people say when you ask them how they are?
Question - "How are you?" Answer - "Not bad." When you think about it, isn't such a reply rather negative and silly? Not bad compared to what? It's trash. Get rid of it. Try something innovative. Try this: "Outrageously well. Thanks so much for asking!" That will surely raise a few eyebrows.
So, getting back to what this article is all about. How much longer are you going to waste the most precious commodity you have? - TIME.
Stop making excuses and start taking action. Do something. Do it now. You could easily start educating yourself.
Good knowledge will give you potential power. Acting on good knowledge gives you power.
Try reading some good books. They can really make a change. Not sure where to start? Easy. Try try your local bookstore. Look in the "motivation - self help - personal development - success" area. There you will find dozens of books literally packed with good earthy, positive information. Most of them will contain references for even more information on these subjects. You could even enrol in a course.
After undertaking these measures there will be no excuse for being an excusiologist. I have just offered you some suggestions which will allow you to change.
Of course, you can always stay as you are. That's your choice. But if there is dissatisfaction in your life and you want to make improvements, for heaven's sake, do something about it!
You only get one chance at the life you are living. Make it grand. You don't have to accept what has gone before as the template for what is to come.
Change your operating system. Gather knowledge. Expose yourself to new ideas and ways of thinking and doing things.
You have probably heard this before but it is so pertinent I will put it before you again...
There are basically three types of people in this wonderful world of ours.
1 - There are people who make things happen.
2 - There are people who watch things happen.
3 - There are people who say "what happened?"
If you have traditionally placed yourself in groups 2 or 3 by not being willing to learn new techniques and obtain the knowledge that successful people seek, then there is a very simple remedy. But you have to be prepared to do three things:
1 - invest in yourself
2 - learn some new knowledge
3 - apply that knowledge
You can make a decision today to better yourself or you can ignore my advice. It's your choice.
Remember, there is nothing so important in your life than investing in yourself. Even if a book or seminar can teach you only one thing out of the hundreds of ideas and special pieces of information they present, it will be worth it for you. Don't you think so? That one thing might be just the piece of knowledge that can make such a huge difference to your future.
Are you worth investing in?
If, in the past you have been prone to making excuses you have the opportunity right now to do something about it.
If you read the newspapers, watch the TV and listen to the radio you will see how much negative permeates our senses. We are flooded by it every minute of every day. Studying success principles has the power to block all that negative out of your life. It can teach you how to concentrate only on what you want.
When you learn how to shield yourself from negative you will then be free to concentrate on all the good that can come into your life.
Just look around you - this world is in desperate need of more achievers. Heaven knows we have enough negative thinkers and excusiologists. They are everywhere. My advice to you is "don't add to their growing number."
Join the achievers who have success thinking as their power base.
Excusiology is a chapter you will find in a subject called Failure 101. Make the decision today to become an achiever.
Whatever you decide I wish you all the best for your future.
About the author: Gary Simpson is the author of eight books covering a diverse range of subjects such as self esteem, affirmations, self defense, finance and much more. His articles appear all over the web. Gary's email address is budo@iinet.net.au. Click here to go to his Motivation & Self Esteem for Success website where you can receive his "Zenspirational Thoughts" plus an immediate FREE copy of his highly acclaimed, life-changing e-book "The Power of Choice."
Gail Lindenfield is a well-known British author who has written... Read More
TRUE or FALSE1. Older adults have more mental health problems... Read More
Maybe it is time to discover a new way to... Read More
Q.: I've always been sort of cynical about all this... Read More
Many people are too busy today trying to fit themselves... Read More
Elizabeth Tull is a Professional Excellence Coach who lives with... Read More
It can be challenging to think about going to the... Read More
When was the last time you were asked, what is... Read More
Most of us plan to find the love of our... Read More
Do you ever pay attention to the thoughts inside your... Read More
Listen. If you donīt beat procrastination at work the long... Read More
What stops you from 'getting things done?'Have you ever started... Read More
I am always concerned that there are so many books... Read More
No matter how much you want to make your dreams... Read More
Today's society and your private world are the results of... Read More
"He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers." -African ProverbPowerful... Read More
In our information age, having the right knowledge at the... Read More
Take this questionnaire to get clear on what you may... Read More
"You must live in the present, launch yourself on every... Read More
Suggested practice to gain freedom from self-limitation.It is suggested that... Read More
As the story goes, there was once a farmer and... Read More
1. Where do I start to create a new life?There... Read More
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in... Read More
IntroductionWordNet defines a rut as a groove or furrow (especially... Read More
Today, when I awoke, I suddenly realized that this is... Read More
Here's an interesting story from the world of race car... Read More
Most of the time whenever we need to make an... Read More
Motivation is an oft-discussed subject, particularly with regards to whether... Read More
Everyone has a life purpose; a unique and special something... Read More
I watched as an 8-year-old All-Star slid dramatically into second... Read More
I recently spoke to a group of sales professionals at... Read More
Many professionals have attained a high level of competence in... Read More
We're all aware of how important teamwork is and how... Read More
As you prepare to take your first steps, could there... Read More
Our greatest growth in life comes from pushing through our... Read More
They say that the way to have a positive attitude... Read More
Changing our internal programming that limits us has never been... Read More
We must all suffer one of two things: the pain... Read More
Are you still "stuck on still?" If so, don't let... Read More
Ever begin doing something that you do for a few... Read More
Four Brilliant Tips to Speed Read Faster than EverMany people,... Read More
"Deep in their roots, all flowers keep the light." ~... Read More
The first of January and September, as well as our... Read More
Every week, I hear from people with the same Self... Read More
When was the last time you truly relaxed? Do you... Read More
Expanding your comfort zone isn't quite the same as building... Read More
--Choose a motivational quote related to your goal. Don't have... Read More
As Prince, or whatever his name is now put it... Read More
It is so important to know how to motivate ourselves... Read More
Looking for a summer project? How about working on who... Read More
Whether you've been in business for yourself for a day... Read More
You'd be surprised. Maybe amazed. If you could see the... Read More
Think about what you're doing each day and ask yourself... Read More
The answer is yes, of course, right? People motivate other... Read More
IntroductionWordNet defines a rut as a groove or furrow (especially... Read More
Don't be afraid to build the dream - Attempting to... Read More
"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a... Read More
I once heard a statement that no matter how good... Read More
In a world where dynamism alters egos and principles in... Read More
I want to share with you a powerful principle that... Read More
"The measure of your success usually comes down to who... Read More
Throughout my life I have observed many things and I... Read More
I receive many emails from people that basically ask the... Read More
"He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers." -African ProverbPowerful... Read More
We are all guilty of wanting to change our circumstances,... Read More
Lately, I've become super sensitive to the amount of excuses... Read More
Motivation |