There is a new television show, called Blind Justice that will be replacing NYPD Blue. The show follows a Detective who, at the prime of his life and career, loses his vision in a heroic attempt to thwart a bank robbery and save other police lives. The shooting of this Detective results in his losing his eyesight/vision. He refuses the "disabled" label and sues to get his job back. The show doesn't premier until a week or two from now, so I know no more about it. What immediately struck me as I watched the promo for this new TV show was the idea of losing one's vision. Not physically becoming blind, but losing the vision we once had for our lives.
In our childhood we all had visions of being "something", a fireman, policeman, astronaut, president, etc. As we grew older those visions might have been replaced with others, but there was always a vision of who and what we would be. Do you remember yours? Do you remember graduating and starting your first job?
Didn't you have a vision of where your life would go? Do you still have it? Has it changed? Do you even look at it?
Often as we grow into adulthood and the day-to-day responsibilities take over our lives, we lose our vision. We get caught up in surviving, taking care of business, as it were. But, without a vision we will remain stuck in the daily grind, only to one day look back and think, "Why didn't I?I wish I had?"
Creating a vision for our lives entails looking into the future and imagining a perfect life. If nothing stood in your way, what would you like your life to look like in 5 years, 10 years, etc? Would you live on an island in the Pacific, would you be president of your company, would you be home-schooling your three children? Would you be living in a big house, small house or log cabin? What is most appealing in the vision of your future? Money? Fame? Stability? Family? Locale? Why is that the most appealing?
Having a vision is different than daydreaming. We can all daydream about winning the lottery, marrying a prince/princess, etc. Having a vision is more reality based. It often requires a lot of work, hard work, to attain the vision of our perfect life. Often it means foregoing immediate gratification for long-term happiness. To reach our vision we need to make plans, set goals and enlist support. We need to fully occupy our vision. Can you feel yourself living that vision?
Don't let go of the vision you once had. Pull it out, look at it, tweak it where it need tweaking, or start anew, but embrace a vision and start planning how to make it happen. It sure can't hurt! If you don't you just may be looking back one day saying, "Why didn't I?I wish I had?"
About the Author
Beth Densmore is a Personal Life Coach who offers support, inspiration and motivation to those who are in transition and want to achieve a goal. For more information and more free articles like this, visit her site at http://www.newfocuscoaching.com.
The inner critic is that voice inside your head that... Read More
In our information age, having the right knowledge at the... Read More
After eating a turkey and dressing sandwich for breakfast, I... Read More
How quickly we forget. We are only a few weeks... Read More
Did you realize that as much as 47% of the... Read More
Cherish Enthusiasm Live with passion Excitement Belief Rejoice Attitude and... Read More
THOUGHTSJames Allen in his Book "As a Man Thinketh"says Mind... Read More
Why is it that every time you start something new,... Read More
James 2: 17?faith by itself, if it is not accompanied... Read More
Are you still hoping and waiting for someone somewhere to... Read More
We all gravitate toward what we feel most comfortable doing.... Read More
Perseverance is about as important to achievement as gasoline is... Read More
Writing your own obituary sounds and feels a little strange,... Read More
Many people don't really understand the gift they have been... Read More
Spring cleaning is a great motivator. Why confine it to... Read More
"Accept the challenges so that you may feel the exhilaration... Read More
"There are only two ways of bringing brightness into your... Read More
Many humans are motivated by the thought of doing something... Read More
Imagine being able to choose any outcome and automatically feel... Read More
Reality show audition...I did it!What an experience, a day and... Read More
'When it comes to life the critical thing is whether... Read More
I want to share with you a powerful principle that... Read More
"Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with... Read More
Can you believe it, summer is almost over. Did you... Read More
In other words, it is in the "doing" that we... Read More
You know, whenever you are going to make a major... Read More
Someone once pointed out to me that in many of... Read More
Q: I just read your column in today's' Greensboro News... Read More
Self-discipline is a powerful tool that can help you accomplish... Read More
Your ability to move into action and to achieve bottom... Read More
A Mastermind is a group of individuals who are joined... Read More
H appiness depends upon your outlook on life.A ttitude is... Read More
All of us have a vision of our own possibility.... Read More
When was the last time you truly relaxed? Do you... Read More
THE BRAINThe Brain is the instrument of the mind, the... Read More
Can There Be Any Other Business Like Your Own Business?"Whatever... Read More
I once heard a statement that no matter how good... Read More
Suggested practice to gain freedom from self-limitation.It is suggested that... Read More
Do you do things that you don't want to do?... Read More
If you really want to be at your absolute peak... Read More
One of the most challenging things about starting on a... Read More
For years, many of us heard the phrase "Knowledge is... Read More
As often happens following one of the Best Year Yet... Read More
We typically think of New Year's as the time to... Read More
Prepare, prepare, prepare! The horizon screams of spring and the... Read More
"All the adversity I've had in my life, all my... Read More
Elizabeth Kubler Ross once said, "People are like stained glass... Read More
Do you ever get those Sunday night blues? Dreading the... Read More
Building a team of motivated people in your business is... Read More
How many times have you heard or read that words... Read More
There is hardly anything more personal that what motivates each... Read More
I worked hard for the past 17 years. I felt... Read More
I've never surfed in my life. Sometimes people tell me... Read More
Be careful what you believe because that is what you... Read More
How many times have you come up with a brilliant... Read More
Over the past several years I have experienced my fair... Read More
This is a key to lasting motivation and beating procrastination.If... Read More
"Every truly great accomplishment is at first impossible." It's a... Read More
A lot of folks are petrified at the mere thought... Read More
Q: I just read your column in today's' Greensboro News... Read More
For the last hour I have been sweating over what... Read More
"Blankey" ? as in Security Blankey. OK? All parents know... Read More
Four Brilliant Tips to Speed Read Faster than EverMany people,... Read More
How dramatically we can change our results is largely a... Read More
Would you like to learn a skill set and technique... Read More
Throughout the many pages of scores of motivational books, with... Read More
Motivation |