Do what you love to do and give it your very best. Whether it's business or baseball, or the theater, or any field. If you don't love what you're doing and you can't give it your best, get out of it. Life is too short. You'll be an old man before you know it.~ Al Lopez
Since childhood we are coerced to follow the conventional path. Along the way, through happy accidents we discover small pockets of doing what we love. Unfortunately, due to the tremendous strength of our conditioning, we relegate our attention to doing what we must to survive.
Only twice have I met people who have done what they loved and both events shook me to the core. Inspiration is watching someone doing what they love.
The first time, I was introduced to a dentist. My mother had sent me to see him because I was about to graduate from high school and I wanted to choose a profession for college. She had been a patient of the dentist and had been highly impressed by him.
The dentist showed me around his office. It was evening, and the office had closed. He was so enthusiastic that I could barely follow along. He showed me a variety of instruments, he showed me textbook after textbook of the most horrific dental conditions and rhapsodized about how dentistry could fix them, and-he showed me what it is like to be happy.
The second time, I was introduced to a surgeon. Unfortunately, I was his patient. This man used to be a general practitioner, and then fell in love with surgery. He just loved helping people. Besides saving my life, he also showed me the power of doing what you love. He was always laughing, joking, and appeared to be having the time of his life.
Both these men enjoyed tremendous wealth and success. I met them socially, too, and learned more about them. Life and joy just emanated from them. They were the most charming and amazing people in any social setting. Their charisma emanated from doing what they loved all day long.
If you're not doing what you love, then you're at the wrong place, with the wrong people, and doing the wrong thing. Your life is heavy with repressed desire. And the weight of your unlived life will not let you have a moment of true spontaneity.
But--how do we just throw away the entire fabric of what we consider our safety and plunge into doing what we love? How do we probe past the layers of self-denial that have what we love to do?
There are three things to do to live your life on your own terms doing what you love.
The first is to spend some time in introspection and find what you love to do.
The second is to begin where you're at to do it. Do it as recreation if you don't have an outlet. The main thing to do is to let it happen.
The third thing is to let it expand by itself to fill your life. Your skills will improve, your hobby will attract opportunity, and one day, you'll find the joy of living your life the way you want and be a blessing to all those around you.
Resource Box
Saleem Rana got his masters in psychotherapy from California Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, Ca., 15 years ago and now resides in Denver, Colorado. His articles on the internet have inspired over ten thousand people from around the world. Discover how to create a remarkable life
Copyright 2005 Saleem Rana. Please feel free to pass this article on to your friends, or use it in your ezine or newsletter. It's a shareware article.
This morning at 5:22am to 6am, I was overwhelmed. Overwhelmed... Read More
I sat down to write my weekly humor column, but... Read More
You have just completed a major work project before the... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of November 3,... Read More
The world is perfect the way it is. The world... Read More
Many of us seek consolation in the words of Frank... Read More
There are Angels for everything and they are just waiting... Read More
Our spirits are taking a beating. The daily barrage of... Read More
Jeremiah was certainly one of the most distinguished notables of... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of August 26,... Read More
At a recent seminar we were asked to imagine if... Read More
Last week we started a five part series on The... Read More
Think of an adventure that you might like to take.... Read More
Writing a book or creating a killer headline requires a... Read More
When starting any enterprise or business, whether it is full-time... Read More
These moments of awareness are powerful motivators. They boost our... Read More
I've spoken with many people who, over time, have felt... Read More
A Story (Source Unknown) ? One day a very wealthy... Read More
Buying a VCR may not seem like a noteworthy purchase... Read More
The bedrock of the Christian faith is the good news... Read More
Continued...About a year later I met my husband. I met... Read More
"And thou shalt say unto Pharoah, Thus saith the Lord,... Read More
I am an Angel artist on a passionate spiritual journey... Read More
There are discoveries all around ussmall gifts of joy that... Read More
Why 'you are special'?Why and how does it matter?Things you... Read More
"Hope is the thing with feathers That perches in the... Read More
DREAM IT, CREATE IT, BECOME ITIf you've been reading my... Read More
Yesterday, I listened to an interview with Michael York, the... Read More
"An unexamined life is not worth living."-- SocratesI have just... Read More
Six former wards came back to the California Youth Authority... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of November 24,... Read More
Sometimes things happen in life for apparently no reason at... Read More
Human mind which is well known as a fluctuating prodigy... Read More
Discovering the Art of Bending Your Mindset and Manifesting your... Read More
I write and talk a lot about dreams. Primarily because... Read More
Even immediately after my car accident, every single person who... Read More
Have you always wanted to do invent something, create something,... Read More
As a chef I have a unique perspective on anger.In... Read More
What are the odds of someone doing extraordinary things if... Read More
Waking up one day and realizing your world just isn't... Read More
The blaring sound leapt under Jerry's skin and strangled him... Read More
Good morning Roy, good morning Joseth.Roy? You have in your... Read More
So who is Dr Robert Anthony?He is the best-selling author... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of April 21,... Read More
There is a story about a little girl who suffered... Read More
(Excerpted from the Jim Rohn Two Day Weekend event -... Read More
Those of you, who can fathom yourselves welcoming and enjoying... Read More
At some stage of living your life you will ask... Read More
BONZA BOTTLER DAY is any day when the date and... Read More
Here's a quote from the late great columnist Sydney Harris... Read More
Remember, everything is made of energy. Each of us has... Read More
At a recent seminar we were asked to imagine if... Read More
Quotable quotes are nothing more than flowery words... And anyone... Read More
I have a question for you.Who are you?This may be... Read More
Trying to predict stock price movements is necessary, of course.... Read More
It has been six months since I left the corporate... Read More
EXTREME is not a term usually connected to self-care. Self-care... Read More
Many of us are unable to move forward with our... Read More
Have you ever wanted to do something really major-something stupendous-something... Read More
When you fall, do you get right back up? Do... Read More
Do you suffer from emotional clutter? Is suffering even the... Read More
I call myself semi-retired. I work at a job that... Read More
(excerpted from the New Jim Rohn Weekend Event DVD/CD series)Is... Read More
It was one of those once-in-a-life-time moments. The entire World... Read More
Sometimes we are concerned with being right and we don't... Read More
Three Words That Can Help Us Live Exceptional LivesCertain words... Read More
Inspirational |