To a large extent the holidays have come to be more about materialism than the original values of peace, harmony, and faith. Advertisers hit us from all sides with messages of greed and pettiness. Every media outlet is rife with the idea, "buy this, or they wont love you."
In such an age, it is important to remind the children about the true meaning of the season. This can be done, to some extent, by helping them to build their own gifts to give to others, and teaching them what the true value of a gift is. This has several major benefits.
1. In building the gift you will be spending time with the child doing something constructive.
2. It will teach them the value of money. The item they buy would have to be made just like the item they make themselves. Money doesn't just appear it has to be earned, and then traded. So money is trading work, for work.
3. It will engage their imaginations and creativity.
4. The gift they create will be much more meaningful, and you should let them know that.
As you can see, there are a ton of benefits to having your child build a gift themselves. At a young age this is obvious, but even as they grow older and into their teens this should be something you encourage.
Building a gift is easy. Different levels of skill can accomplish different things of course, but the mediums are fairly similar across all ages.
You can encourage the child to make you a card or a picture. You can give them clay or plaster and let them sculpt. Or you can suggest they write you a poem, or a story, or frame some nice pictures they take.
You should play to the child's interests. If you get them started on an art form for a single project, it could click and give them a hobby for years to come, while expanding their horizons. Try and get them to be creative, and stretch their limits. Most important of all, be encouraging, the child is a new artist, and so will be hesitant about their work. This is your chance to help their self esteem at the early stages of a new craft.
About The Author
Joey Lewitin is an author and designer of fine gifts and furnishings, which are on display sat http://pebblez.com
Picture this scenario! It's December 24th, the day of Christmas... Read More
Not everyone shares in the celebration and joy associated with... Read More
Throughout the year we have many gift-giving opportunities to show... Read More
Do you know a Mom that deserves a special gift... Read More
"Wouldn't you just know it," muttered my husband, Randy.We had... Read More
Did you know that after Christmas, Valentine's Day is the... Read More
Christmas dinner probably the most elaborate and complex dinners you... Read More
"It's not that the Irish are cynical. It's rather that... Read More
Ever wonder why there's an "Easter Bunny"? Ever wonder why... Read More
Memorial Day is a day for remembering those who have... Read More
Christmas is always the time of year we consider to... Read More
So Valentine's Day is upon us yet again, and most... Read More
Valentine's Day is often synonymous with lush velvety looking red... Read More
Here it comes again - the Holiday Army - in... Read More
How to develop and heighten rapport on Valentines Day beyond... Read More
Depending on the age of your little ones, you may... Read More
Holidays are here and so is the spirit of partying.... Read More
Some people hate to see Valentines Day come around. Some... Read More
Jewelry can be the perfect gift for mom on Mother's... Read More
Well, it's almost that time of year again ? the... Read More
With Mother's Day approaching fast, it's time to begin thinking... Read More
Most people mistakenly believe that Mother's Day is an invention... Read More
One of my earliest memories involves a Fourth of July... Read More
No matter what celebration you and your family will rejoice... Read More
Let's admit it, the US and UK are both countries... Read More
Mother's Day is May 8th. And, you do realize all... Read More
Gift Baskets are an ideal gift for nearly any occasion.... Read More
Unique "Drop-A-Hint" Plan Sends Your Gift Wishes Via E-mailSure, they... Read More
Electric Christmas lights have been around since the 1880's. It... Read More
Do November's Thanksgiving experiences have you dreading the December holidays?... Read More
Campers all over the globe prefer to use tents in... Read More
What a great time of year! It's a time to... Read More
To take advantage of the last days of autumn, we... Read More
'Tis the season to celebrate -- and a time to... Read More
"Here's to the bright New Year, and a fond farewell... Read More
I love this time of year -- decorations on the... Read More
Sometimes gifts that are truly from your heart have no... Read More
Ok, the end of October is approaching, and you desperately... Read More
Like many people, I love the idea of making a... Read More
Christmas is such a special day. It is a day... Read More
Wonderfully simple to do and oh so impressive!You don't need... Read More
The word mother and mothers day are simple, yet powerful... Read More
As the holidays approach, I find myself wondering how I'm... Read More
Mothers Day is the day we set aside each year... Read More
When it comes to holiday greeting cards, to send or... Read More
Candy canes are everyone's favorite holiday treat. Just think about... Read More
Holiday Tips For Stepfamilies: Let Go Of The "Brady Bunch"... Read More
Mistletoe. Holiday parties. New Years kiss at midnight. This time... Read More
John Grisham wrote a book called SKIPPING CHRISTMAS. Amazon.com reports:... Read More
Instead of scouring the mall for gifts this holiday season... Read More
No matter how well we may have weathered our basic... Read More
Halloween ? so starts the Holiday Season. The average American... Read More
Valentines Day is one of the most enigmatic of holidays,... Read More
Family traditions connect us to past and future generations. They... Read More
The joyous season of Christmas is steeped in tradition, and... Read More
The general word on the Internet is the first Valentine... Read More
Birthday party supplies and decorations can bring that necessary magic... Read More
Memorial Day is a day for remembering those who have... Read More
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday! Family, friends, good food ?... Read More
Most people know that the 50th wedding anniversary is the... Read More
Usually, the hardest part about Halloween is finding the perfect... Read More
Depending on the age of your little ones, you may... Read More
There are countless Halloween masks available today. At Halloween specialty... Read More
Another Mother's Day is upon us. A day in which... Read More
Kids take their birthdays very seriously, and are extremely disappointed... Read More
December and all the excitement that comes with it can... Read More
Holiday |