1) Don't look at other women
While dating, focus your attention on your date and make her feel as if she matters the most to you compared to other women. Let's face it, women loved to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. If not for you, who else other than her immediate family members.
2) Make her feel like a queen.
On the first date, buy her dinner to show you value her company. This will also reduce any tension between two people meeting for the first time. Make her feel special. Women find this absolutely irresistible. Build a bond of fun and excitement between you and be romantic. Subsequently you can buy her gifts when the relationship progresses but never ask or even hint sexual favors in return. Women get appalled and turned off by any suggestion of sex initially.
3) Be yourself.
Don't exaggerate or boast your credentials, successes, etc. Make the other party feel at home so that she does not feel pressured to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.
4) Don't ever talk about your past relationships.
Don't keep harping on them. This is a no-no and a sure turn-off. You will only project the impression that you are unable to let go and continue to give a present date a chance to get to know you better in a positive manner.
5) Treat your first date as if going for an "interview".
You want to impress and let the other person know your qualities and characteristics for a life partner. If you are not ready to be in a commitment, let her know straight away so that you do not mislead her into false hopes. But be cautious not to boast or exaggerate stuffs that are beyond you. Your deepest communication to women is carried out by your personal style and your level of confidence. Nobody feels more at ease than being with a confident man.
6) Don't keep splurging and live like a millionaire unless you are one yourself.
During the dating process, be careful how you handle money and spend within your own capacity. You don't want a bank account of only 1 figure left after several dates. If you cannot afford it, go for somewhere cheaper or try less expensive alternatives. It is most undesirable if after several dates, you find that both of you are almost broke or worse, had to borrow to continue your lavish lifestyle. If your partner is in a habit of borrowing money from you, drop her or him immediately.
7) Be observant.
While dating for a while, you can conclude if this person is suitable for you for life or not. During dating, keep both eyes wide open and look for tell tale signs like a persistent borrower, in debt, etc but after marriage, keep a close eye and forgive.
The best time to date is during high school or undergraduate years as you are young with no "life baggage" but you can also date if you are single again. Marriage is meant to last for better or for worse till death do us part. But enjoy dating while you can and live life to the fullest.
About the Author:
Bonnie Lee holds a successful home based business besides being in a satisfying relationship. While not working, he enjoys precious quality time with his spouse. He is the author is this article and ebook "41 Mistakes Men Make in Bed". For motivation, read relationship success at his website http://www.tsldesigns.com/ebooks/41mistakes/
You are on your way to your first date with... Read More
However you like to do it, dating is a dangerous... Read More
As you're surfing the Internet and coming across titles claiming... Read More
Dating is a daunting prospect, especially for those who've been... Read More
My husband and I used to live in NYC. WE... Read More
Dating online can be great fun, stimulating and exciting. So... Read More
SpeedTry to picture what used to happen earlier in the... Read More
Six months ago an old school friend and I were... Read More
All I wanted was to fall in love and live... Read More
The task of choosing the best dating site to join... Read More
For some, the idea of dating again can be intimidating... Read More
Each and every woman is an actress in their own... Read More
Why is it some people look at dating as a... Read More
Dear Soulmate,Where are you?? It seems as if I have... Read More
Today there are many single women over the age of... Read More
(Black Couch Tales)Mike was completely stressed when he walked into... Read More
The majority of theories on how to pick up girls... Read More
Are you a teen who is dating? Are you a... Read More
What's the Number One Question that Everyone Asks About CyberDating?Everyone... Read More
Dating at first is fun but as it goes on... Read More
Now you all know I have become a bit cynical... Read More
There is one thing we all know for certain when... Read More
Back in 2004, I met a gentleman who was interested... Read More
Dating is the first step to love. I am going... Read More
Research shows that people who put each other down and... Read More
If you're single, you've probably gone to a singles bar... Read More
Admit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out... Read More
Watch Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or any other man with... Read More
1) So what's it gonna be?Decide on your attitude ?... Read More
More and more people in the UK are turning to... Read More
Did you know that experts say the way people treat... Read More
We are all too familiar with the term "body language".... Read More
ARIES (March 21 - April 19) - She's aggressive with... Read More
Did you know that experts say the way people treat... Read More
Dating online can be great fun, stimulating and exciting. So... Read More
The easy way to date is really by empowering yourself.... Read More
As part of my research for a guide to style,... Read More
The building of self-confidence is not difficult, but it requires... Read More
We would like to take a few minutes of your... Read More
SpeedTry to picture what used to happen earlier in the... Read More
Harsh words, hurting comments, tears and flying household objects -... Read More
Flattery will get you everywhere! Always compliment women and they... Read More
Have you seen a dating site? Would you want to... Read More
Why is it people, especially the media, thinks that looking... Read More
We all know that online dating will help you to... Read More
You are on your way to your first date with... Read More
Guys have all different motives for trying to be successful... Read More
Online dating is a great way to contact and meet... Read More
You see it all the time, and it makes you... Read More
Jody's quest in finding a suitable partner for marriage seemed... Read More
Ever had a love at first sight encounter? Totally captured... Read More
When dating we all too often settle for someone that... Read More
Unfortunately, what you do with your hands can be one... Read More
As you're surfing the Internet and coming across titles claiming... Read More
No doubt about it, Internet dating has become a unique... Read More
Have you ever imagined what it would be like to... Read More
You are on your way to your first date with... Read More
Valentine's Day was initially an outgrowth of an ancient Roman... Read More
Does your significant other cry at goofy commercials? Does she... Read More
It's one of the supreme tragedies in life. When there's... Read More
One of the great things about online dating is the... Read More
As the UK Online Dating market keeps on growing day... Read More
A few weeks ago I was having lunch with a... Read More
We are all too familiar with the term "body language".... Read More
Times are changing and online dating is becoming a more... Read More
This week I want to discuss chasing women, or rather... Read More
Dating |